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Option B

Option B: a baby, then he steps away

In Option B, he helps you get pregnant and then steps away completely. He makes no claim on the child, and you ask nothing of him. There is nothing to manage in the years after.

No contact after the birthArtificial insemination only

Some women want a child, but no other person in their life afterwards. Option B is for them, and it fits on one page because it has one result.

He helps you get pregnant and then leaves your life completely. He does not call. He does not visit. He does not ask for photos or news. He will not appear when the child is 12 because he changed his mind. That is not the plan, and he does not want it.

What Option B includes

Method Artificial insemination, at a clinic or at home
Travel You agree it together. He comes to you when that works; if it does not, he sends sperm to a clinic near you
Costs He pays his own, you pay yours
His face On your video calls, when you both agree
His name Shared after your video calls
His medical reports Shared after your video calls
Contact after the birth None
Money after the birth None
His say in how the child is raised None
His claims on the child None
What you can ask of him later Nothing

The method cannot change

Option B means artificial insemination only, at a clinic or at home. Artificial insemination means the sperm is placed inside you with a small medical tool, not through sex. No other method is possible in Option B, at any stage.

The reason is simple. Getting pregnant without a clinic, with no relationship, no money and no contact afterwards, attracts dishonest people on both sides. Other methods are only discussed in Option A, where you talk, share information and plan many years of contact. This rule protects you as much as him.

What to know before you choose it

In many countries, a man the child can identify may be the child’s legal father, whatever you agreed between you. In some countries, he may have to pay for the child even if you both agreed he would not. This can affect both of you, so it is important to understand it before you decide.

Do you want money for the child, and a father your child can know? Then read Option A.