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What you can check before you decide

Only facts with a date or a document are listed here. If something has no date or document, it is not on this page.

Tests from March 2026Full reports shared after your video calls

Age mid 40sExact date of birth shared after your video calls
Height and body 184 to 191 cm, athleticExact height shared after your video calls
Amount of semen About 4 times the normal lab rangeMarch 2026
Sperm movement (motility) Better than the normal rangeMarch 2026
Tests for infections ClearMarch 2026
Smoking and alcohol No smoking. Alcohol only sometimes, one glass at most
Illnesses that run in the family None known.
Full medical reports Shared after your video calls
Face When you both agree
Photos, face not shown After you write to him
Name Shared after your video calls

Why some facts are shown as a range

An exact age and an exact height could identify him when they are put together with other facts. This website is read by many people, not only you.

So facts that could identify him are shown as a range. You get the exact numbers after your video calls, together with everything else. The ranges do not make him look better than he is. Where the exact number matters, like the fertility results, it is shown exactly.

More tests are coming

He is willing to take any test that helps you decide, and to publish the result here, good or bad. These tests are planned:

  • a genetic carrier test: it shows if he carries genes for illnesses he could pass on
  • a chromosome test
  • a full blood test
  • a check by a psychologist
  • a criminal record check

Each one will appear on this page with its date.

If you want a test that is not on this list, ask for it in your letter. That is a fair request, and it tells him something useful about you.

Photos

There are no photos of him on this website. After you write to him, he can send you photos of his body, with the face not shown. You see his face on your video calls, when you both agree.